Saturday, October 26, 2013

Getting More


The men’s fellowship I’m part of is looking at Randy Alcorn’s book, “Heaven”.  Now Randy has some useful insights about heaven.   I’m only partway through it, but I’m noticing that in writing it, Randy can’t help but reveal his own philosophy of eternity.  You may disagree with some of his points, but his primary point cannot be disagreed with.  At least, not by those who strive to get there.  This is, that we don’t think enough about it, and we don’t plan enough with it in mind.  He gives an illustration of the importance of this in the opening chapters, when he points out how bizarre it would be to find someone with us travelling to a destination and wondering at the same time what it will be like.  How well you enjoy the destination depends on how well you prepared to be there.  But if we’re going to prepare to be there, we might as well find ways to maximize our enjoyment of it.  And surprisingly, Jesus said we can do exactly that. 

At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” 2 He called a little child and had him stand among them. 3 And he said: “I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4 Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” [1]

To be ‘great’ in the eternal Kingdom is indeed something to strive for.  After all, people here will exhaust themselves and count it worthwhile that they accomplished something that lasts only through a few decades of retirement!  How much more then, to have that which lasts forever and ever! 

That Jesus tells us to do that by becoming like children is intriguing.  Often I am with people who believe that what He really meant was something totally different. 

Certainly it’s a hard thing to understand on the face of it.  Our society attributes value based on capability and education – things children (and the text makes the point that he really meant ‘little children’) definitively lack.  Seeing children as incapable of adding value to the Kingdom of God, they reduce this text to meaning only that if you are as unpretentious as a child then you have the qualities that God is looking for.  But is unpretentious the quality Christ noted in the child before him?  No – He said, “whoever humbles himself like this child”.   

Now I don’t know about your kids, but neither my kids nor anyone else’s I’ve ever met was particularly humble.  Selfish?  Check.  How many have heard children say, ‘no’ more than once too often?  Greedy?  Check.  How many have heard children say, ‘mine’ more than once too often?  Concerned only with what they want right this second?  Check.  In fact, the younger they are, the more unaware they are of the needs of others around them.  So in what way is a child (especially a little child), “humble”?

You might think that Jesus should’ve rather said, “Unless you change and become like students.”  After all, students have many great qualities.  They’re diligent about finding out about the world around them, committed to the search of knowledge and typically  aren’t burdened with the pride that some professors have.  But it’s also true that most students are young people who really don’t know what they want, struggling with hormonal changes, highly impulsive.  Students have many great qualities, but not the key quality that allows both entrance and greatness in the Kingdom of Heaven.

You might think that Jesus should’ve rather said, “Unless you change and become like social workers.”  After all, social workers really care about people!  They’re committed to helping others even if it means obscurity and low wages for themselves.  They’re prepared to go to the difficult places and work with difficult people.  But social workers are also committed to personally making a difference.  And striving to change others is not the key quality that allows both entrance and greatness in the Kingdom of Heaven.

Similar things could be said of pretty much every profession, and also of every stage of life.  There is something about a little child that Jesus expects is evident to all of us – something that IS the key quality that allows both entrance and greatness in the Kingdom of Heaven.  That quality, Jesus says, is humility as a child has it.  So in what way does a child demonstrate humility? 

It might seem odd that a child who is barely self-aware, who can’t pronounce 4 syllable words (like hu-mil-i-ty) and who demands much of adults around them can demonstrate a profound quality like humility.  And I think for that reason we often tend to spiritualize the daylights out of this passage of Scripture, trying to twist it to mean something about humility as adults would demonstrate it.  But children can’t do that.  What they do demonstrate is a kind of humility that we actually rarely see in the adult world. That is, the humility that causes them to constantly look beyond themselves.  As a result, they find joy in their present circumstances, while being unconcerned with personal accomplishment.

It is exactly the opposite of the quality most of demonstrate during their teenage years (at least, speaking for my own memory of those years).  When we feel we can do anything anywhere, even though we haven’t done anything, gone anywhere alone and don’t even understand the world around us.  It is markedly different than the quality most of us demonstrate in our adult years, when we’re aware of the complexity of the world around us and we know we can’t do everything, so we try to do something right where we are.  It is exactly the opposite of the quality most of us demonstrate in our careers.  When we’re focused on using our skills and talents to bring change to our spheres of influence.  We tend to focus on our circumstances. 

Little children just aren’t that concerned with their circumstances.  They find ways to play and have joy even in the middle of the most dire of circumstance.  I think they do that because they aren’t focused on themselves at all.  They expect someone else to be in charge.  Someone else to provide for them.  Someone else to accomplish things.  Someone else to meet their needs.  They come with NOTHING but themselves, and they do that naturally. 

Unlike us.  It takes a great deal for us to come with nothing but ourselves.  That’s why Jesus says, “Unless you CHANGE and become like little children”.  Unless we have the humility to set aside all our skills, and all our accomplishments, and all our circumstances, and just BE.   Unless we’re prepared to stop focusing on what we can DO and what we can offer.  Unless we look beyond ourselves to HIM.  

That is the key.  Not just the key to the Kingdom, but the key to greatness in the Kingdom.  The more we look to Him, the more we expect beyond ourselves, the better off we are - FOREVER.





[1] The Holy Bible: New International Version. (1984). (Mt 18:1–4). Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.

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